Events Calendar
Poly Poly Oxen Free
July 13, 7PM Eastern
The Proscenium Theatre @ The Drake
poly poly oxen free is a live polyamory dating show, as seen in The Gothamist and the NY Times!
Each show features The Catch who already has at least one love and is looking for more. The Poly Pool of eligible contestants must complete a series of challenges to woo The Catch. Will love be found in the Poly Pool? Will The Catch make a match or two? Will we all just hook up after the show anyway?
Online Game Night
July 12, 4PM - 6PM Pacific
Hangout with other ethically non-monogamous folks. Play games. Make friends. Relax. We’ll be playing some simple online board games, card games, and generally socializing. Drop in for a bit, stay as long as you like.
Note: You will need to be logged in to a Zoom account to join. A free account works fine.
BLACK & POLY Family Friendly Picnic
July 12, 12PM - 3PM Pacific
Lake Merritt
For this year's Week of Visibility for Nonmonogamy, Smartt Love Therapy is bringing together Oakland's Black & Polyamorous Community.
Calling all BLACK, Polyamorous/ Consensually Nonmonogamous Families (Polycules, Couples, Individuals) in Oakland, California and the Bay Area!! The founders of Smartt Love Therapy, Onaje & Raquelle A. Smartt are inviting you to come together, build community, and celebrate love in all its forms for FREE.
Bate Papo em grupo
Julho 12, 15h
Bar Sem Fronteiras
No dia 12/07, às 16h, teremos um encontro especial no Bar Sem Fronteiras, em Ribeirão Preto, para celebrar a Semana da Visibilidade Não Monogâmica BR.
Será um momento de bate-papo em grupo, troca de experiências, reflexões e construção de conexões entre pessoas interessadas na não monogamia e nas diversas formas de viver os relacionamentos com ética, diálogo, autonomia e consentimento.
Mastering Metamour Relationships in Non-Monogamy (Copy)
July 12, 2PM - 4PM Eastern
Leanne @polyphiliablog + Lola @nonmonogamy help share tips on how to relate with your partner's partner and navigate the dynamic healthily
Our mononormative society teaches us that a partner having another partner is automatically a threat to your relationship security - but in non-monogamy, we learn to see things differently when multiple loves are possible. But what do you do when meeting your partner's partner for the first time - and do you even want to? What is your responsibility to handle in the dynamic, and what jobs are better left to the hinge (the person in the middle)? How do you go from feeling competitive with your love's love(s), to collaborative and maybe even compersive?
If the above questions resonate, this workshop is for you.
Communication and Conflict in Poly Relationships
July 12, 11AM - 1PM Pacific
We’re taking a thoughtful look at how we’ve communicated in the past, uncovering obstacles & paving the way for more open, effective convos!
Communication is a lifelong journey, full of lessons and discoveries. In this workshop, we will explore the ways we've expressed ourselves and imagine how we might do so more effectively, closing the distance between our current selves and our ideal selves in moments of connection and conflict. With guidance from Self Development Coach Zipporah Jarmon, we will embark together on a path toward communication that feels both genuine and empowered.
Stereo
Julho 12, 15h
Barracca do Beijo Triplo
e a Stereo faz parte da programação oficial, finalizando a semana com muita festa porque ser feliz e comemorar nossa existência é resistir 👭👬
vem comigo esfregar na cara da sociedade patriarcal, capitalista e monogâmica, que dá pra viver de outras formas mais bonitas e honestas, amar de forma política, rebolar e desejar livremente e ser feliz em toda a nossa dissidência LGBTQIAPN+ ! 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
PicNic Adultos e Crianças
Julho 12, 15h
Jardim Quinta das Conchas
Fechamos a Semana da Visibilidade Não-Monogâmica com um PicNic aberto a todas as pessoas e famílias! Vem ter connosco, traz as crianças (ou vem só tu), uma mantinha e comida para partilhar. Também te podes juntar à caminhada organizado pelo PolyAmbulatory, que começa às 12h
Out & Proud (?): What Does it Mean to be Poly in 2026?
July 12, 10AM Pacific
In partnership with OPEN, as part of the Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy, join us for a free live podcast recording exploring the beauty and the struggle of being visibly non-monogamous in 2026.
We'll share our own reflections on coming out, pride, safety, and the strange pressure to be "a good poly" — then open up space for audience questions and comments. Whether you're loudly out, selectively out, proudly private, or still finding your way, this will be a warm, thoughtful space to feel in community with others navigating non-monogamy.
This recording will be released as a bonus episode of the All the Love podcast.
Polyamory Picnic on Filopappou Hill to Celebrate Week of Visibility
July 12, 8PM
Filopappou Hill
12/7 pic-nic για την εβδομάδα όρατότητας της μη-μονογαμίας!
Αυτή είναι η τέταρτη χρονιά που γιορτάζεται διεθνώς η βδομάδα Ορατότητας για τη Μη Μονογαμία!
Στα πλαίσια της διεθνούς βδομάδας για την ορατότητα της μή-μονογαμίας λοιπόν (6-12/7) ας μαζευτούμε και πάλι για ένα πικ νικ κάτω από τον ουρανό του Φιλοπάππου να μοιραστούμε στιγμές, φαγητά, αγκαλιές, αγωνίες και γέλια!
Φέρε μαζί σου κάποιο σεντόνι για να στρώσεις και αν θες κάποιο αναψυκτικό, σνακ, επιτραπέζιο παιχνίδι ή απλά την καλή σου διάθεση!
Σημαντικό:
Οι άνθρωποι έχουν πολύ διαφορετικά προσωπικά όρια, ζήτα πάντα τη συναίνεση τους και τσέκαρε το επίπεδο άνεσης τους γύρω από την αγκαλιά, το άγγιγμα και τον προσωπικό χώρο.
Θα βρεθούμε στις οκτώ στο λόφο του Φιλοπάππου. Δες την ακριβή τοποθεσία εδώ: https://maps.app.goo.gl/mgdpZMkMbbaige8D8
Free Screening & Discussion: More Than Monogamy
July 12, 1PM - 3PM Eastern
Central Library (Arlington)
In celebration of the Week of Visibility for Non-monogamy (July 6-12), attend a free 20-minute screening of “More than Monogamy,” a feature-length documentary film, to gain a better understanding of non-monogamous relationships. A discussion will follow.
The film features in-depth interviews with leading experts in human sexuality, relationship psychology, sex education, and intimacy. Relationship coach Kitty Chambliss, author of Jealousy Survival Guide and host of the podcast Loving Without Boundaries, appeared in the film and will join us for the screening and a post-viewing discussion.
Escuta de Afetos
Julho 12, 11h - 13h
Escuta de Afetos
Você critica o sistema monogâmico imposto como forma de se relacionar ou busca construir relações mais livres, éticas, conscientes e alinhadas com quem você é?
A rede de Escuta de Afetos são grupos de apoio seguros para troca e acolhimento de pessoas que desejam se sentir escutadas e se fortalecer nessa caminhada. Um espaço para compartilhar experiências reais, mudar as referências, comunicação, autonomia emocional e responsabilidade afetiva. Cultivamos amizades, desenvolvendo empatia, intimidade, pertencimento, escuta genuína e respeito, e tudo isso com escuta ativa e presença.
PIC NIC NM em São Carlos
Julho 12, 15h
Parque do Bicão
E pra quem gosta de socializar ouvindo o som dos pássaros, também teremos um rolê mais tranquilo para fechar muito bem a Semana da Visibilidade Não-Mono. Leve uma toalha, algo pra comer e chega com a gente pra trocarmos sobre a vida e as relações. Pra quem tem crianças/pets, esse é o rolê mais indicado. Até lá!
Game Night and Pizza
July 9, 6PM -10PM Pacific
Weekend Wizard & Franco Pizza
Games at Weekend Wizard in Lodi, followed by pizza at 8PM at Franco Pizza (nextdoor).
Vivência: Roda de Perguntas NM
Julho 11, 15h
Espaço Cultural Escritor José Lins do Rêgo
Vivência: Roda de Perguntas NM
OPEN at Tacoma Pride Festival
July 11, 11AM - 5PM Pacific
Wright Park
Meet OPEN at our table during Tacoma Pride Festival!
Poly 201: Beyond Jealousy
July 11, 9AM - 11:30AM Pacific
Denver, CO
Build emotional resilience in nonmonogamy: navigate conflict, communicate better, and grow through challenges
Nonmonogamy can bring up unexpected emotions—hurt, frustration, jealousy—that can feel hard to name, let alone process. It’s easy to think you shouldn’t feel this way, but what if those feelings are an opportunity for growth instead of shame?
In this workshop, we’ll explore those tough moments together in a supportive, validating space. You’ll learn to identify and work through challenging emotions, shift out of defensiveness, and communicate more effectively with your partners. Through group connection and hands-on practice, you’ll gain tools to turn emotional roadblocks into opportunities for deeper self-awareness and stronger relationships. Leave with renewed confidence, practical conflict-resolution skills, and a clearer path to thriving in your nonmonogamous journey.
Non-Monogamy Visibility Day Community Picnic
July 11, 11AM - 3PM Eastern
Headlands Beach State Park
Spend an afternoon enjoying community, conversation, and connection at beautiful Headlands Beach State Park in Mentor, Ohio.
Bring a chair or blanket, snacks, drinks, and your favorite people. Whether you’re non-monogamous, polyamorous, curious, supportive, or simply looking to connect with community, you’re welcome to join us.
Tarde de Jogos
Julho 11, 15h
Defuse Cafe
Quando as nossas crias ficam maiores, adolescentes ou jovens adultos, nada melhor que conhecer outras pessoas no meio de jogos de tabuleiro e/ou cartas. Nesta Semaba da Visibilidade da Não-Monogamia, queremos aproximar as famílias e dar-lhes visibilidade
Hyggehiking Manhattan's Makeout Spots
July 11, 10AM - 10PM Eastern
Manhattan
On Saturday July 11th, we'll explore Manhattan's most memorable makeout spots, from secret gardens and rooftops to iconic landmarks with dreamy vistas.
Non-Monogamy Visibility Community Chat
July 10, 8PM Pacific
This week is the Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy, and on Friday, July 10 at 8 PM PDT, I’ll be going live on Discord for a real conversation about coming out as polyamorous: the good, the bad, and the ugly.
We’ll talk about what coming out can look like, who we choose to tell, what can go beautifully, what can go sideways, and the complicated stuff nobody really prepares you for.
Important: You must join the Discord server using the event link in order to attend. The discussion will take place live in the server’s voice chat, so make sure you join ahead of time so you can be notified when we get started.
The official discussion will run from 8 PM until… whenever we’re done. And after that, I’ll stick around for anyone who wants to hang out, talk, and connect a little more.
Come share your story, ask questions, listen, or just be in community with other non-monogamous people.
Love In All Its Forms - a non-monogamy art show & open mic hosted by the Non-Monogamy Discussion Group Vancouver
July 10, 7PM - 9PM Pacific
Cross & Crows Books
Spend an afternoon enjoying community, conversation, and connection at beautiful Headlands Beach State Park in Mentor, Ohio.
Bring a chair or blanket, snacks, drinks, and your favorite people. Whether you’re non-monogamous, polyamorous, curious, supportive, or simply looking to connect with community, you’re welcome to join us.
Seattle LGBTQ+ Center: Gardens & Gems
July 10, 6PM - 9PM Pacific
The Center for Urban Horticulture
Join us for Gardens & Gems, the Seattle LGBTQ+ Center’s annual summer fundraiser!
This is not your ordinary gala. Gardens & Gems happening on July 10th is an evening of queer art and entertainment in support of the Center’s mission to cultivate access and connections to promote self-determination, liberation, and joy in our LGBTQ+ communities.
Hosted at the beautiful Center for Urban Horticulture, this evening invites guests to sparkle and shine in their most fabulous floral or gem-inspired attire for a night of opulence, celebration, and fun.
SourMIX
July 10, 7PM - 9PM Central
Love and Exile
Join us at our monthly, adults-only happy hour mixer. Typically held at bars with counter service and open seating, these are typically louder events with a lot of social interaction! If the weather allows, we choose a spot with a patio to escape to for quieter moments. Look for SourMix during the first half of the month on a weeknight. This month's location is Love & Exile - one of our favorite places to meet up. Come get a drink and grab a seat on their lovely patio with us to kick off the Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy!
Orientação Relacional
Julho 10, 20h
Orientação Relacional com Felipe Starling e Marina Rotty
Open Hearts Oasis: An ENM Wellness Experience
July 10, 6PM - 8PM Eastern
Dumbo
An evening of mingling, mini wellness resets such as chair massages, Reiki, light bites, and cacao for the ENM community.
Open Hearts Oasis: An ENM Wellness Experience
In celebration of Non-Monogamy Week of Visibility, join us for Open Hearts Oasis, a unique in-person event dedicated to wellness in the ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) community. This experience is designed to foster connection, understanding, and personal growth in a supportive environment. Enjoy mini massage resets, grounding Reiki, lite bites, beverages, cacao ceremony, and more!
Live: Feminismo e Não Monogamias: Diálogo entre pesquisa e ativismo
Julho 10, 19h
Live: Feminismo e Não Monogamias: Diálogo entre pesquisa e ativismo
Building Meaningful Relationship Agreements
July 10, 2PM - 4PM Pacific
Feel like you’re never completely on the same page about expectations with your partners? Need some support figuring out what kinds of agreements make sense for your unique partnerships? Join Dr. Justice and Cadence for a two hour workshop on building relationship agreements.
Relationship agreements have helped to dispel uncertainty, reduce insecurity and anxiety, aid in conflict repair, and facilitate complex arrangements including many different relationship styles within the same polycule. Templates will be provided for all participants as well as ample time to collaboratively brainstorm how this tool could strengthen your relationships.
Não Monogamia, Anticolonialismo, Parentalidades e o Direito à Diversidade das Famílias
Julho 10, 18h
LIVE: NM e anticolonialidade, parentalidades, familias e diversidade
Living ENM: A Panel Discussion & Social Mixer
July 9, 6:30PM - 9:30PM Pacific
Matilda
This is a Week of Visibility for Non-Monogamy celebration - part educational, part social mixer. Nicole Sonnefeldt of Freeform Coaching will be hosting a panel with real life community members and experts from across the ENM Umbrella, discussing how they navigate life , dating and love while ENM. The panel will be followed by a cocktail hour & mingling - to meet both new friends and lovers!