July 6, 5:30PM - 8PM Pacific

50 South Steele St
Denver, CO 80209

Curious about polyamory? Learn how to avoid common pitfalls and build relationships rooted in trust.

Polyamory can create opportunities for deep connection, autonomy, and community, but it also requires intentionality, communication, and self-awareness. Many challenges in consensual nonmonogamy are not unique to polyamory—they are amplified versions of issues that occur in any relationship: insecurity, miscommunication, unclear expectations, unmet needs, and avoidance of conflict.

Successful polyamorous relationships are less about “finding the perfect structure” and more about developing the skills to navigate complexity. Avoiding pitfalls means building relational resilience: communicating openly, tolerating discomfort, managing expectations, and approaching conflict with curiosity rather than blame.

Common pitfalls often emerge when people move too quickly, make assumptions instead of agreements, avoid difficult conversations, neglect existing relationships, or try to control others to reduce anxiety. Healthy polyamory relies on consent, transparency, flexibility, and emotional accountability.

Want to go deeper? Get a better understanding by checking out our Poly 201: Beyond Jealousy workshop!

Hosted by Lindsay Hayes, MFTC and Samantha Slawson, MFTC